Showing posts with label self-confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self-confidence. Show all posts

Thursday, 6 August 2020

No Lumps In My Drink

The Come Up by Tasmiya
Stir and Stir and Stir

While stirring my daily dose of proteins with water I often have multiple thoughts running in my mind.

Today it was about how much we stir or shake the powder with water to get the perfect drink without a single lump but when it comes to life, we stress about every single difficulty so much that we fear taking up new challenges and risks.

We work for hours just to get our eyebrows on fleek, lipstick perfectly applied within the lines and so on
 I wonder when we can spend such amount of time making the smallest things perfect, why don't we work on the difficulties that actually matter.

As they say "Dar k aage jeet hai", it just takes a slight determination to put all the fear and stress behind and achieve the purpose.

Anyone can say anything in theory but what matters is how good you are at practicals.


Monday, 29 July 2019


YOU Have Come Here To Live

So, Live

If YOU Really Wanted To Go To Heaven, Go Today
Why Are YOU Postponing It?

We Are Often Worried About The Climate Of This World,
But Never Care About Our Inner Climate.

World Is Not Happening YOUR Way? It's OK
You Are Not Happening YOUR Way Is A Problem.

And When YOU Become YOU Again,
Everything Will Fall Onto It's Knees.

Nobody Is Like YOU On This Planet,


Don't Look For Sameness.
YOU Are Unique!

And If Someone Love's YOU, 
They Will Be YOUR Peace,
Not YOUR Problem.

All YOU Have To Do Is:

From YOU

Maybe Not Now But Lately,
YOU will Realize It.
Yes, YOU Are YOUR Own Rescue.

YOU Have Come This Far,
YOU Can't Give Up Now.

Learn To Let Go And Be The Whole
All At The Same Time 
And The Things Would Change, Since Then.


Wednesday, 27 February 2019

My Kinda Love


I love it when I'm loved for my toil.
Not for my smile and
Not for my style,
Not for my hair and I walk like I'm on the aisle. 

Not for my silence and
Not for my innocence,
Not for my curves and nothing girly masculine.
Yes, I love to be praised and love to be fine,
But just keep it for my toil.


Saturday, 2 February 2019

We The Indians

We Indians have big dreams, infact huge dreams.
Ask any person either it's a small kid or old man, what's their dream. They'll come up with unbelievable answers. Even though they dream huge, they settle for everything that's in the middle.
IC to rightful owner

I know, now your question is why do they settle? 
We Indians have a mindset which has been carried as a burden from I don't know how many years, at-least I have heard that from the day I'm born.
That mindset is- if I do this "what will the people think", " how will the society react", "society will not accept it", "will I be criticized", " I might get traumatized" and the list just goes on.....

Are all these questions really required?
Is this mindset helping you in any manner?

Who is the society? 
We people are the society, in other words I am the society, you are the society. 
Without even trying to achieve your goals or living your dreams, why do you say society will not accept? 
IC to rightful owner

You are the society, Live your dreams for you.

Influence the people with your dreams and I assure you every hard-work is appreciated today or tomorrow. 
There are many scientists, poets, artists whose work was appreciated after their death, their work made them immortal.
And even if it's not appreciated, you would at-least be satisfied that you tried to work on your dreams, you lived the life you wanted, you achieved the goals you had set.
Isn't that feeling wonderful? 
Don't you want that feeling on the day you say good-bye to this world? 
I'm sure you want it, as I do.
Cut the cliche 
What's yours is yours
Make it yours.


Monday, 14 January 2019

Current Status

Current status : happily single 
No, I don't have an argue to get fucked emotionally, mentally and physically any sooner.
No, I wouldn't say I'm a virgin because I have been fucked hard every time I trusted someone, as it is said life fucks everyone.
I know I speak profanity a lot 
I know I am blunt
I know I am arrogant
I know I am stubborn
I know I don't fit in the so called proper "friend" or "girlfriend" bracket and why do I have to? 
I don't like pretending something else which I am not, and if you don't like what I am just walk out.
I don't question about whom you are dating
I don't try to be nosy about whom you are marrying 
I don't try to pretend like I am your only friend
I don't try to bodyshame you 
I don't come to your home and question how much money you have
I don't talk to your parents like I am your grandma 
And this explains what are the boundaries I draw, please follow them.
I know what I bring to the table and I don't deal with garbage.
You are you,
I am me.
You can't be me, I don't want to be you.
Don't mess. 
Stay away.

Wednesday, 13 December 2017

Double Chin And Proud

Double chin and Proud
It's the end of 2k17 but still People often take it as an authority to comment on a woman's looks. 

They feel as if they are a privileged judge of a beauty pageant where in all the models are walking to be judged on the basis of their looks, walking style, talking style, the way they smile, blah,blah,blah........

But these people often forget that someone might be judging them too because no one is mathematically perfect.

I believe being imperfect is perfectly alright because we all are perfect with all our imperfections. 

I know, I know we all get to hear many taunts on the day-to-day basis, like for example :

The most famous dialogue : "She looks so fat" 💁

Then comes this one : "Why does she dress like that?"🙎

And this : "I see a strand of white hair"

"Yuck! what is that double chin"

"She needs a nose job"

"I'm sure she lies about eating too much" 

"Stop using filters, be real"

"too much makeup"

list just goes on and on but this one is my personal favorite among the things that I have personally heard :

"How do her parents allow her to wear this?"

Yaar, my parents are cool. They love me as a person and are not crackpots to judge me on the basis of my height, weight, behavior and dressing style. 

Well the haters will always hate, criticism is always good for the betterment of the person who is being criticized. So, lets take that 

Now when someone clout that I am double-chinned, I rap back and say "I'm triple-chinned actually, you din't see sharp.

Yes, I have made peace with the way I look, long time ago. It's time you do too

Never Let A Scale Define You Or Someone Else

I'm Not You, You Are Not Me,

 I'm Not Her, And She's Not You.

"Stop body-shaming"

Saturday, 9 December 2017

A Compelling Sentiment

Yes, It is better to live with "Oh,Shit!" than with "What if?" 


A compelling sentiment voiced by me and most of the people is that when life draws to a close, we would prefer to be able to count our regrets on our fingers instead of living in the shadow of what could have happened if we had pursued our passions.

Wednesday, 29 November 2017

WW 2018 || Woman's Wings || Article

I am sure all of you have been told that you don't have what it takes and that you may not be good enough and you don't have enough people supporting you.