Showing posts with label judgemental. Show all posts
Showing posts with label judgemental. Show all posts

Monday, 24 June 2019

Honesty And Authenticity

slayqueen_tasmiya


None of us are perfect

Yes

That's the fact

Every person has his own kinda flaws, we all do mistakes.

But what I believe in is atleast, ATLEAST making an effort to be on the positive side of the being.

In the world where people believe that being HONEST and AUTHENTIC is so outdated and If someone follow it, they say "you are so overrated as a human", let's be a little extra as they say it to be and try being honest and nice with each-other.

Now, speaking about these two adjectives or adverbs (however you take'em to be)-

 it takes least amount of effort to be "free of deceit, truthful and sincere" (as Google dictionary describes Honesty) BUT we often tend to flip on the untrue or illusory side of our being. We find it easy to fake or lubricate the stuff up and present it, which might actually benefit you for the moment. But will it benefit you in the long run?

There is this weird kinda belief in mortals of today's generation(should I actually mention generation? because this belief can be sensed in all the generations) that you cannot have a rapid growth in your career if you be honest or authentic (genuine), there is this misconception that if you are trying to impress your authorities with pleasing things more than your work, you get promoted easily and quick. 
But let's state the fact that "India is adding about 13 million new workers every year to its labor pool" and you never know when your so called "authorities" are getting down the throne, do you still wanna impress them?

Think about it because at the end of the day your metrics speak for you and no one else.












Wednesday, 27 February 2019

My Kinda Love

SlayqueenTasmiya

I love it when I'm loved for my toil.
Not for my smile and
Not for my style,
Not for my hair and I walk like I'm on the aisle. 


Not for my silence and
Not for my innocence,
Not for my curves and nothing girly masculine.
Yes, I love to be praised and love to be fine,
But just keep it for my toil.


©slayqueentasmiya

Monday, 14 January 2019

Current Status

Current status : happily single 
No, I don't have an argue to get fucked emotionally, mentally and physically any sooner.
No, I wouldn't say I'm a virgin because I have been fucked hard every time I trusted someone, as it is said life fucks everyone.
I know I speak profanity a lot 
I know I am blunt
I know I am arrogant
I know I am stubborn
I know I don't fit in the so called proper "friend" or "girlfriend" bracket and why do I have to? 
I don't like pretending something else which I am not, and if you don't like what I am just walk out.
I don't question about whom you are dating
I don't try to be nosy about whom you are marrying 
I don't try to pretend like I am your only friend
I don't try to bodyshame you 
I don't come to your home and question how much money you have
I don't talk to your parents like I am your grandma 
And this explains what are the boundaries I draw, please follow them.
I know what I bring to the table and I don't deal with garbage.
You are you,
I am me.
You can't be me, I don't want to be you.
Don't mess. 
Stay away.
-slayqueentasmiya

Wednesday, 13 December 2017

Double Chin And Proud

slayqueentasmiya
Double chin and Proud
It's the end of 2k17 but still People often take it as an authority to comment on a woman's looks. 

They feel as if they are a privileged judge of a beauty pageant where in all the models are walking to be judged on the basis of their looks, walking style, talking style, the way they smile, blah,blah,blah........

But these people often forget that someone might be judging them too because no one is mathematically perfect.

I believe being imperfect is perfectly alright because we all are perfect with all our imperfections. 

I know, I know we all get to hear many taunts on the day-to-day basis, like for example :

The most famous dialogue : "She looks so fat" 💁

Then comes this one : "Why does she dress like that?"🙎

And this : "I see a strand of white hair"

"Yuck! what is that double chin"

"She needs a nose job"

"I'm sure she lies about eating too much" 

"Stop using filters, be real"

"too much makeup"

list just goes on and on but this one is my personal favorite among the things that I have personally heard :

"How do her parents allow her to wear this?"

Yaar, my parents are cool. They love me as a person and are not crackpots to judge me on the basis of my height, weight, behavior and dressing style. 

Well the haters will always hate, criticism is always good for the betterment of the person who is being criticized. So, lets take that 
positively.

Now when someone clout that I am double-chinned, I rap back and say "I'm triple-chinned actually, you din't see sharp.

Yes, I have made peace with the way I look, long time ago. It's time you do too

Never Let A Scale Define You Or Someone Else

I'm Not You, You Are Not Me,

 I'm Not Her, And She's Not You.

"Stop body-shaming"





Friday, 20 October 2017

Discover My Soul

I dont wanna die
death



I want to die because that's what feels right to me at this moment.

I know I am not going to have a natural death immediately,I'll have to help myself to reach death.

I would cut myself because that pain would be better than the mental pain.

I would hang myself because that would release me from my mental trauma.

I would drown myself into the water because that might calm down my soul.

Yes, there are many ways by which I can end up this life. Which 1 shall I choose?

But wait do I really want to punish myself by killing ?

Is that the only solution ?

Wednesday, 9 August 2017

Man=Head,Woman=Neck!

From childhood I have read and heard that Man :

  • Is the head of the Family
  • Head of the house
  • The fatherfigure
  • Feeder
  • Helper
  • Lover
  • Companion
  • Protector
  • Uplifter
  • Oh My God,list just goes on.....
But

Seriously ?????

Man word cloud
MAN

Once again, today I came across an incident where a man was harming a woman. No, let me correct my words, I came across an event where a "younger brother was harming his elder sister".

What gives these men the power to harass, abuse,harm,molest,hurt and in the end act like they are saints and woman is vamp ???????????

Saturday, 29 July 2017

The Wolf

The Wolf
The People Who Consider You Weak Have Not Yet Noticed The Wolf Hiding Behind Your Eyes,
Nor The Flames Inside Your Soul.
Let Them Think You Are Weak And Do What Wolves And Fire Do Best ,
Surprise Them When They Least Expect It.


Monday, 24 July 2017

A Woman's Voice Is Revolution

too little for your ego and i cannot give you no booze.....


                         WOMEN HATER'S GET BANISHED


#Dontbeavictim #Saysomething #Breaksilence
in the time it took for you to reach this page,
around 27 women in your country have been assaulted or abused.

1 in 3 women 
WORLDWIDE has 
experienced physical or sexual violence in their lifetime.

Only 47% of these incidents are reported to police.

Worst thing that would ever happen to anyone, she is helpless, she is angry, she is scared and now she don't have a whole lot of faith in humanity in general.

Wednesday, 12 July 2017

Do Understand !

I wouldn't mind crossing oceans but if that oceans are created by people to distance me then I wouldn't be jumping even a single puddle for them .... 

I'm a limited edition







why not call myself special ??



People might find me crazy,mad and kiddish but the fact is a person who doesn't love himself can never love nor be loved by anyone .

Wednesday, 8 February 2017

Wednesday, 12 October 2016

Love Yourself

Your skin is not a paper, don't cut it .....

Your face isn't a mask, don't hide it......

Your size isn't a book, don't judge it......

Your life isn't a film, don't end it .......

Thursday, 15 September 2016

Reality

           WELCOME TO REALITY 


Show feelings = Get hurt :(
Be faithful = Get cheated on !!!
Show love = Get left 
Be honest = Get lied to :|

WELCOME TO WORST NIGHTMARE OF ALL, REALITY !!!!!