Showing posts with label feminism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label feminism. Show all posts

Tuesday, 19 February 2019

Marriage or Torture

Girl is born, people talk about her marriage,

She learns to speak, people talk about her marriage.


Girl does a mistake, they say girl you got no rights,
She likes something, oh no you got no rights.

You don't belong here, you belong to some other home.
You can't live like this, you belong to someone else.
You can't have your own choices, you belong to someone else.

Attain maturity, peace ends.
Finish studies, peace ends.
Have a good job, peace ends.
Wow, you are a Boss-girl with vision but still your peace ends.

Constant torture 
Constant torture 
Constant torture 

Back in the days it was instant death at birth,
Now they have a slow poisoning style.

Say no to marriage, you are spoiled brat.
Say no to marriage, you are disobeying parents.
Say no to marriage, you are characterless.
Say no to marriage, you are sleeping with someone else.

I say yes to my dreams,
I say yes to my thoughts,
I say yes to my freedom to live,
I say yes to my feelings,
I say yes to me.

No, I'm not disrespecting my parents, I'm respecting me,
Keep on torturing, 
Keep on burning me,
Keep on telling I am bad for living it my way.


I say no to your thoughts,
I say no to your marriage idea,
I say no to your torture,
I say no to this world.

And probably, yes to my death.

©slayqueentasmiya

Monday, 14 January 2019

Current Status

Current status : happily single 
No, I don't have an argue to get fucked emotionally, mentally and physically any sooner.
No, I wouldn't say I'm a virgin because I have been fucked hard every time I trusted someone, as it is said life fucks everyone.
I know I speak profanity a lot 
I know I am blunt
I know I am arrogant
I know I am stubborn
I know I don't fit in the so called proper "friend" or "girlfriend" bracket and why do I have to? 
I don't like pretending something else which I am not, and if you don't like what I am just walk out.
I don't question about whom you are dating
I don't try to be nosy about whom you are marrying 
I don't try to pretend like I am your only friend
I don't try to bodyshame you 
I don't come to your home and question how much money you have
I don't talk to your parents like I am your grandma 
And this explains what are the boundaries I draw, please follow them.
I know what I bring to the table and I don't deal with garbage.
You are you,
I am me.
You can't be me, I don't want to be you.
Don't mess. 
Stay away.
-slayqueentasmiya

Wednesday, 6 June 2018

Wednesday, 13 December 2017

Double Chin And Proud

slayqueentasmiya
Double chin and Proud
It's the end of 2k17 but still People often take it as an authority to comment on a woman's looks. 

They feel as if they are a privileged judge of a beauty pageant where in all the models are walking to be judged on the basis of their looks, walking style, talking style, the way they smile, blah,blah,blah........

But these people often forget that someone might be judging them too because no one is mathematically perfect.

I believe being imperfect is perfectly alright because we all are perfect with all our imperfections. 

I know, I know we all get to hear many taunts on the day-to-day basis, like for example :

The most famous dialogue : "She looks so fat" 💁

Then comes this one : "Why does she dress like that?"🙎

And this : "I see a strand of white hair"

"Yuck! what is that double chin"

"She needs a nose job"

"I'm sure she lies about eating too much" 

"Stop using filters, be real"

"too much makeup"

list just goes on and on but this one is my personal favorite among the things that I have personally heard :

"How do her parents allow her to wear this?"

Yaar, my parents are cool. They love me as a person and are not crackpots to judge me on the basis of my height, weight, behavior and dressing style. 

Well the haters will always hate, criticism is always good for the betterment of the person who is being criticized. So, lets take that 
positively.

Now when someone clout that I am double-chinned, I rap back and say "I'm triple-chinned actually, you din't see sharp.

Yes, I have made peace with the way I look, long time ago. It's time you do too

Never Let A Scale Define You Or Someone Else

I'm Not You, You Are Not Me,

 I'm Not Her, And She's Not You.

"Stop body-shaming"





Wednesday, 29 November 2017

WW 2018 || Woman's Wings || Article


I am sure all of you have been told that you don't have what it takes and that you may not be good enough and you don't have enough people supporting you.

BUT
LET ME TELL YOU THE FACT

Friday, 20 October 2017

Who Are You ??

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL !!! 

you are beautiful
beautiful
If I could meet myself 20 yrs ago, what would I say to "lil me"?

" Gossip less,Study more"?

Or, "don't cry if you come second in competition"

Or, May be,

"You have no idea what all amazing things will happen in your life"

NO 

Maybe just,two words. "You're Beautiful"

Wednesday, 9 August 2017

Man=Head,Woman=Neck!

From childhood I have read and heard that Man :

  • Is the head of the Family
  • Head of the house
  • The fatherfigure
  • Feeder
  • Helper
  • Lover
  • Companion
  • Protector
  • Uplifter
  • Oh My God,list just goes on.....
But

Seriously ?????

Man word cloud
MAN

Once again, today I came across an incident where a man was harming a woman. No, let me correct my words, I came across an event where a "younger brother was harming his elder sister".

What gives these men the power to harass, abuse,harm,molest,hurt and in the end act like they are saints and woman is vamp ???????????

Monday, 24 July 2017

A Woman's Voice Is Revolution

too little for your ego and i cannot give you no booze.....


                         WOMEN HATER'S GET BANISHED


#Dontbeavictim #Saysomething #Breaksilence
in the time it took for you to reach this page,
around 27 women in your country have been assaulted or abused.

1 in 3 women 
WORLDWIDE has 
experienced physical or sexual violence in their lifetime.

Only 47% of these incidents are reported to police.

Worst thing that would ever happen to anyone, she is helpless, she is angry, she is scared and now she don't have a whole lot of faith in humanity in general.

Wednesday, 12 July 2017

Embrace The Woman You Are


                 Phenomenal Woman


Related Poem Content Details

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size 
But when I start to tell them,
They think I’m telling lies.
I say, 
It’s in the reach of my arms, 
The span of my hips, 
The stride of my step, 
The curl of my lips. 
I’m a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman, 
That’s me.

Do Understand !

I wouldn't mind crossing oceans but if that oceans are created by people to distance me then I wouldn't be jumping even a single puddle for them ....